People often ask me why I’m willing to talk about my weaknesses, my failures, my living in a van, having been homeless, and having medical or mental health (PTSD/Depression) issues related to being a photojournalist documenting trauma. I talk and write about those things because a lot of people see me as being strong, or intelligent or talented and assume that I don’t have problems, or that the things I struggle with aren’t really difficult. I think it’s important to be transparent and authentic - to acknowledge that I’m not without faults, temptations, weaknesses and challenges. None of us are. Yet - we assume that those around us live the struggle free existence of a sit-com television family.

As a matter of fact, most of us assume that the stronger, more successful and talented any person is - the fewer issues they have. As a society we equate the path to success as one that’s littered not so much with boulders as benefactors. The truth is, a successful person is one who is more likely to have had to climb boulders. And I think it’s important that people realize that we all have our problems. Stephen Hawking has been wheel-chair bound most of his adult life - having been diagnosed with amyotrophic lateral sclerosis while at Cambridge University. He chose not to let his health issues derail his pursuit of his passions - and it hasn’t.

Most of the most famous motivational speakers of the last century have struggled mightily with depression. Many successful actors and celebrities have struggled with learning disabilities. Richard Branson, Founder of Virgin Airlines and 150 other companies, has dyslexia. So does Tom Cruise. Michael Phelps, Olympic swimmer and multiple gold medal winner - began swimming to help him cope with frustrations around his learning disabilities.

I can’t think of anyone who is famous who hasn’t struggled with health, or circumstantial issues along the way. One of the most inspiring things about people is the story of what they overcame or deal with on a daily basis in order to succeed. Acknowledging our frailty only enhances our achievements - it doesn’t diminish them.

Yet I see many young people who are embarrassed, ashamed or angered when a weakness is exposed. Older people feel shame - as though they are less than or undeserving somehow if they fail, if they have problems, if they are in debt, or addicted, or overweight, or not physically attractive, or if they drive an old car, live in a run down part of town or struggle in any way.

I think it’s important that people know that being broken, poor, challenged or disabled is only a deterrent or barrier to success if we allow it to be. It’s our attitude - not our circumstances - that determines our successes. Hiding your weaknesses doesn’t fool anyone and only stresses you as you try to hide it. On the other hand, don’t use your challenges as an excuse or seek pity through them. But do know that you are not alone in your struggles. We all struggle. Some struggle more than others - and some have more advantages and resources as they struggle. But focus on your own potential and learn to appreciate the struggles of others. And never be ashamed of what you have overcome, or are working to overcome. You are amazing. And you are not alone.