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Why the Poor Stay Poor - Bleeding Hearts Need Not Apply

27 July 2010 Comments

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This is one of my “pinhead” posts. Posts I write when I’m tired of stupidity. This time, I’m tired of the ongoing debate about whether homeless people “SHOULD” have cellphones, as if there was a law that made communication illegal for the poor or homeless!

People in general are cruel when it comes to the homeless. On the one hand they want to help them, but ONLY if the person is TOTALLY without resources and destitute. And THEN they blame them for being that way! Damned if you do, damned if you don’t. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve heard extreme anger, even rage at the idea that a homeless person has a cell phone! Wake up and get a life. Pre-paid cell phones are as cheap as $19 for the phone and $10 a month for service. That means the homeless person has access to a way of calling the police, a friend, or applying for a job. Yet the media would have us all believe that a homeless person with any technology, including a $10 Walmart watch, is a liar, scammer or cheating the system, or using the phone to deal drugs. Get over it.

The fact is, 85% of homeless people had real lives before the economy and lay-offs forced them out of their jobs and homes. They were middle-class, working people with boats and camping gear and ipods and cell phones and laptops and cars. And now they’re homeless, unemployed and have sold, pawned or put everything they have into storage with friends or family members or at a public facility while they search desperately for jobs. They may get stuff out of of storage to sell, or they may get rid of everything they own for the money. Giving up their cellphones and laptops and tools is like throwing away a life jacket. Possessing a few high-tech pieces of equipment is not an indication a person is not homeless. Be glad if a homeless person does have those items - it means they’re doing everything they can to hang onto them and to find a job.

When you’re poor and you lose everything then the slippery slope becomes a deadly cliff. You can no longer afford to keep your car repaired so it breaks down. If you can’t get it inspected or insured you’ll probably lose it - and the only chance you have to get to a job - particularly if you live in a rural area. If you get a ticket on top of everything else and can’t afford to pay it - you lose your driver’s license - making it even more difficult to get a job.

The same holds true with clothes, health and everything in your life. Without the means to keep things repaired, licensed, turned on or operating in order to make a living - you’re out of luck. So then the bleeding hearts come along and insist that you be totally bereft of even a $20 prepaid cell phone? Give me a freaking break. Then put YOUR cell phone aside for a month and see how well YOU function without it. Get the picture? Then stop condemning the homeless for acquiring the tools they need to find or create work and get off the streets. Better yet, buy them a phone and a year’s worth of service. Quit judging and start helping. If you’re not helping solve the problem you probably are the problem.

  • Slumjack
    Great points, Becky. Ironically, I've had people ask to USE my cell phone, a number of times. People that know I was seriously struggling and homeless, without offering me anything in return. Same thing with wanting to check their email or look things up on the internet, using my laptop in cafe's.

    Simply by dint of having such items, I think it can give an appearance of doing well enough that people tend to just assume you're getting by better than your homeless colleagues 'out there' on the street in shabbier condition. And, in a real sense, you are. Yet, the costs and overhead to do better in those ways also consume precious cash even more. Double-edged sword.
  • beckyblanton
    I know. Human beings seem to automatically assume anyone who has something they don't are inordinately wealthy. People think because I have a van I'm not "as homeless" or homeless at all because I live in a 30 year old vehicle. What's wrong with getting a cell phone, or a lap top or having some of those items AND being homeless and advancing? We don't go from naked on the streets and starving to an apartment overnight. Each thing or piece of technology we acquire helps us move UP the ladder. I don't understand why people don't GET that!! How the hell do they think you go from being homeless, penniless and destitute without having to acquire the things you need (phone and laptop or car) to get there? Santa Claus? The freaking lottery? Geesh. It's a process.
  • Slumjack
    One of the ironies of this experience is having found out how much more relatively pragmatically helpful other homeless people can be, compared to even those that consider themselves to be one's "friend" that are even doing quite well.

    The mutually understood demands of immediate survival and practical needs shared by those in the predicament have so many keenly attuned to Quid Pro Quo - Something for Something. One Hand Washes the Other. Scratch My Back... etc.

    So, homeless folks that turn to me for cell phone calls, a session with computer on the internet, etc. usually or often offer something in exchange: a coupla' bucks; buy a cuppa' coffee (the "rent" to be at wifi cafe's); an edible goody. Something.

    The university professor, however, even after a number of cell phone calls and online sessions, including my personal help with whatever he's up to, while a "social friend", has never offered... anything at all, except a nominal "thanks". And tends to want to bend my ear about his various problems and peeves often.
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